We have been there at some time in life when we do not feel like we are a priority.
Sure the world does not revolve around us (boohoo) but when it comes to relationships and hey even friendships, you should never feel like your just an option.
Loyalty is not grey, it is black and white. People are either loyal or they are not at all. You cannot pick and choose when the game of loyalty suits.
If someone is really down for you, into you and interested in you, you will never have to question if you’re a priority to them or not.
So many people end up settling for less, thinking that their expectations are too high…fuck that. Time, respect and to be important is the BASICS. If you’re not getting that, you are selling yourself short.
So often when little effort is being thrown our way, we end up over compensating, we try harder to get that persons attention. HELL NO, that game is dead. If someone truly wants to be apart of your life, in your life, and contribute towards your life – then they will, off of their own god damn backs. We shouldn’t be teaching people how to act right, that is lesson they should have aced already. When you cut the people out that do not give you what you deserve, you’re allowing room for people who will!
How you represent yourself is how others see you. If they see you have self-respect, and will not accept to be treated any less than what you deserve, people will mirror it and match it.
What you allow, is what will continue. NEVER give the power to someone else on how they make you feel and how they treat you. Do not feed people who just take a plate to go. Feed people who sit at the god dam table with you and feed you back. Time is one of the most valuable things we have in life, so do not go wasting yours on someone who cannot give you a second of theirs.
Never allow someone to come and go when they please. You are not a hobby. What are ya? A PRIORITY.